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1. Identify the Habit:
- Specify a concrete behavior she wants to change.
- Understand triggers and rewards connected with the habit.
2. Set a Realistic Goal:
- Don’t aim for freedom from all bad habits at once: keep it small and attainable.
- Set up a manageable goal which can be reasonably considered achievable.
3. Develop a Plan:
- Determine the specific course of action she plans to take to extinguish the habit.
- Make up a schedule of routines.
- Inform close friends, family members, or a therapist about it.
4. Get a Replacement Habit Going:
- Hush a healthy behavior that serves as a substitute for the naughty habit.
- Implement a system of rewards by rewarding herself for progress.
5. Practice Mindfulness:
- Keep an eye on her triggers and cravings.
- Anticipate negative thoughts and justify reasons for quitting.
6. Avoid Temptation:
- Get rid of or, at the least, limit situations or cues that trigger habits.
- If tempted, distract the thoughts or practice relaxation methods.
7. Get Support:
- Confide in a trusted ally like a friend, family member, or therapist about how this journey is shaping up.
- Join support groups or online forums to obtain encouragement and accountability.
8. Practice Patience and Persistence:
- Quitting habits takes time and hard work.
- Don’t be discouraged by setbacks.
- Simply focus on progress, not perfection.
9. Reward Your Success:
- Take time to honor and lavish praises on her achievements.
- Celebrate milestones, and let herself be reminded why quitting is a good thing.
10. Learn from a Setback:
- Figure out what went wrong with her setbacks when these happen.
- Modify her plan or strategy as necessary.
- Know that a failure is not an end but a chance to learn and grow.